Should you praise someone’s intelligence?

Test praising someone for their effort rather than the result. For example, you can say “Thank you for listening, even though you don’t agree with me.”
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Should you praise someone’s intelligence?

What is the best way to provide praise? A study by Professor Carol Dweck at Stanford involved two groups of children taking an IQ test. One group was told “Good job doing this IQ test, you must be clever”, while the other group’s feedback was told, “Good job doing this IQ test, you must have worked hard”. The children then chose a new task, which was either easier or more difficult. Which group do you think chose which task? If you guess wrong it is not because you are stupid, it is because you have not studied enough psychology. The children who were told they were clever actually chose the easier task. This is because if being clever is the same as success at a task, what is failing at a task the same as being? Exactly – stupid.